Being a woman is tricky.
It’s tough being a woman in this world.
We have a lot of complicated things surrounding being a woman. From wires poking out of our bras to smudged makeup, and period cramps.
Like I said, being a woman is tough. It’s hard to explain it to other people who aren’t female.
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
Whether you believe that or not, you have to admit both sexes are very different from one another. There are things each experience that the other couldn’t possibly comprehend.
But some of these differences can highlight the things each gender finds attractive in one another.
It may seem odd, but opposites really do attract!
When trying to meet the right person for you, most of us have a basic checklist of things we would like to have a partner.
This could be normal things like intelligence, humor, or it could be off specifics like a hairy chest or body odor that smells ‘manly’.
Some of the stuff we look for can be a little strange, and it’s totally down to our own personal preferences.
Sometimes we can weird ourselves out when we discover what we like in potential partners.
When I was younger, I was shocked to find out I secretly liked men with really hairy arms. Looks like I landed the jackpot with Walt!
But the thing is, we can like certain things without realizing it, to begin with.
There’s nothing wrong with liking certain aspects of a person or liking specific things. It’s completely natural and a part of our genetics (well, sort of).
Most people think that women only like one type of man, that we want the Adonis type with beautiful thick locks and pearly white teeth.
But that’s not always the case. Sometimes women can be attracted to things you wouldn’t expect.
The same can be said about men.
Typically it’s thought that men like women with long, skinny legs, a large set of breasts, a ‘fat’ backside, and thick pouty lips.
But that’s not always the case for most men.
While some men find those some of these attractive aspects of a woman, they also have other things on their list of what they find attractive.
Some men may like women with blonde hair, blue eyes, a good personality, and a pair of large boobs, while other men may like a woman with pouty lips, who hikes every weekend, is flat chested, and has a sizeable amount of junk in the trunk.
The point I’m trying to make is that looks are subjective. What one man will find attractive, another man may find it far from that.
There’s always going to be someone out there who thinks that you’re a goddess, and they’ll find you the most attractive person they’ve ever met.
While you may not be someone’s cup of tea, you’ll certainly be someone else’s dream brew!
For most women, maintaining their looks is important to them.
True, it’s mostly done for ourselves, because getting all dolled up is the ultimate pampering experience.
But, looking good is also a great way to attract the attention of others.
I’m sure most of us have spent an hour or so styling our hair, picking our outfits, and putting on our makeup on whenever we’ve got a big date or are off out for the night.
I know I use to do that when I was much younger.
Good looks are a big advantage for anyone trying to catch the attention of a special someone.
But if we’re being honest, good looks aren’t enough to make a person fall in love with you.
Often, they fall for your looks, then they fall in love with your personality and spirit. This is the key to building a long and happy relationship.
After all, no healthy and happy relationships have ever been built on good looks alone.
There are a number of traits, both physical and character-based traits, that men fall head over heels for.